Ever feel...

Like your completely superfluous...
Like you  everything say is wrong
Every step wrong
Everything just WRONG

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  1. N2January 26, 2014 at 6:52 PM

    No, I did not. How does it feel like?

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  2. N2January 26, 2014 at 9:20 PM

    Come on. I am not mean. Of course everyone, no matter who he/she is, has such moments. It was such an obvious question, ..... I just did not want a bunch of people comes here and just write down dramatic comment. Anyways if you feel offended/disrespected with my comment, I apologize (I really thought my answer was sarcastic, but I guess I was wrong).

    On my opinion, if anyone have such a feeling, he should be actually happy. Life is like a rotating wheel. It goes up and down. If someone feels he is at the lowest point of this movement, he should be happy and thankful to G-d because the wheel is going to raise him up soon; he is going to see an imminent improvement in his life. So, please be positive!

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    1. aminspirationJanuary 27, 2014 at 10:42 AM

      I did not get the sarcasm...and now that i know its sarcasm it doesnt make it any better. if you never feel sad thats great for you..but sadness is a real emotion and its healthy to experience it and not suppress it.

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    2. DevorahJanuary 30, 2014 at 9:48 PM

      Just to comment on your second paragraph, I don't think hearing that we should be thankful for feeling down because that means things are going to go up soon is very helpful or encouraging. When someone is down in the dumps, it's hard to feel grateful for the present state because soon things will get better. How soon? They can't know. While they are in it, it is healthy to express it and yes, get some validation and support. In a way, that can help someone pull through it more than the obscure thought that one day in the very far off future things will get better... (because who knows how slowly that wheel really turns?)

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  3. Princess LeaJanuary 27, 2014 at 9:46 AM

    I find that at such moments Matisyahu's "Live Like a Warrior" is very soothing. The lyrics are really understanding and inspiring.

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    1. aminspirationJanuary 27, 2014 at 10:40 AM

      I havent listened to that album in a while..i should..thanks for the reminder :)

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  4. DevorahJanuary 30, 2014 at 9:52 PM

    I'm so sorry you're feeling that way. (hug)
    It's tough...when you feel lonely, not needed or valued or important. But just know, there are people close to you-who may not express it often enough or may not express it at all-who do love you and care about you. And there are also people who look at you and need you in a way you don't even know.
    You are important. You are needed. I'm sorry you're going through this rough patch and I hope things start to get better soon...

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  5. AnonymousFebruary 24, 2014 at 12:26 AM

    You have some good friends here trying to cheer up a holy stranger. You send out what needs to be said, and we love what you do. At least I do. I bet if you asked them, they would agree.

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    1. aminspirationFebruary 24, 2014 at 11:07 AM

      thanks anon..that means a lot

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    2. AnonymousFebruary 25, 2014 at 8:53 PM

      No problem. I meant every word.

      Also, however much I love what you stand for, Hashem loves it infinitely more!

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    3. AnonymousMarch 5, 2014 at 3:06 AM

      Now, if only we could get some inspiration from you more often? How about something on Purim?

      BTW, the following website quotes a few sources regarding the power of Tefilah on Purim and reciting Tehillim Perek 22 on Ta'anis Esther (Scroll down to number 4):

      http://www.aishdas.org/avodah/vol09/v09n080.shtml

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    4. AnonymousMarch 5, 2014 at 3:18 AM

      This one explains it as midah k'neged midah:

      http://www.hakhel.info/archivesPublicService/CCHFPurim.pdf

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