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is vanity contagious?
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ReplyDeleteMeaning is self-absorption contagious? A vain person wants an entourage; is the entourage vain? Not if they are being an entourage.
ReplyDeleteI would say not.
I think that it's very easy for the people around you to influence you. Just look at how contagious a smile can be.
ReplyDeleteLOL Good question. I think the answer is yes.
ReplyDeleteWhen you are around people who make the way they look and the externals a very important priority in their life, it may not impact you in the most noticable way in the beggining but it does trickle down and will have an affect.