Its Not Your Business

I learned this piece from Nefesh Shimshon which I thought was supremely powerful so I just thought I would share.

In the middle of the insanity that was leading up to WWII someone asked the Brisker Rav zt"l "what will be?"
The Rav replied: " what will be does not matter to me. I only need to know what is permitted to do and what is forbidden to do."

In our generation we often ask ourselves what will be? The answer is ITS NOT OUR BUSINESS! That is up to Hashem to decide. Hashem makes the world go round. The only thing that is our business: what is permitted to do, and what is forbidden to do. 


This is harsh. It is hard to hear and even harder to implement practically.

Just something to think about

Comments

  1. Sefardi GalMarch 10, 2011 at 6:09 PM

    Very powerful. I recently learned something along the same lines:
    what WILL be shouldn't concern us. What should concern us is: "what does HaShem want from me right NOW?" Because we're always in the present :)

    ReplyDelete
  2. aminspirationMarch 10, 2011 at 8:12 PM

    we are always in the present. or rather we should be, but we spend waay too much time lingering in the past or yearning for the future.

    ReplyDelete
  3. DevorahMarch 16, 2011 at 4:33 PM

    Woah! That's very strong but very true.

    Thanks for the reminder.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

you know what to do....

Popular posts from this blog

My plane broke!

Man alive do i have a story for you! So i was supposed to go to isreal wednesday, i was flying direct and i was all excited that i was gonna have a normal flight. i had no problems with security i get on the plane i sit in my seat, get my book out. everyone is filing in. they do the whole security thing, turn off the lights we all settle in, i even turn off my beloved ipod. all of sudden they turn the lights back on, and they aer telling us that the plane is BROKEN! and that they haev to do sheet metal repair. so they give us an option to get off the plane and go through security again or we can stay on the plane and in an hour the well just move us to the next plain. now with my previous experience do yoiu thinki i believd them? uhuhuhuh! so i get off settle down with my book and get comfirtable . i call my parets to tell them what teh story was. so my father tell me to ask if i can change my flight to sun night cuz we had a seuda last night at my house and i was gonna miss it. so i c
Read more

tonight

so basically it comes down to this, i dont have anyone to talk to..and i really need to get this out. A family I am close to has a son you could call " at risk." I hate labels but just so you know what Im talking about. The parents..have no clue what they are doing and are making text-book classic WRONG moves. They seem to be intent on completely pushing the kid off. Issuing ultimatums. Telling him they wouldn't care if he died. Kicking him out of the house. Yelling. Screaming. The works. The sisters reached out to me and i told them how important it is to love him, and be warm to him. To let him know that he is wanted and that they are there for him unconditionally. I mentioned in passing something you learn in Psyche 101- you can never force anyone to change..people will change when they want to. You can change yourself but that is about it. Anywhose..the crazed dad called me yelling at me that i am in no position to tell his kids anything...especially such sill
Read more